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Intimacy in FLR

Jul 252019

undefinedMany relationships only have a surface level of intimacy, which usually duals as foreplay. The intimacy is short lived, and after sex it must be built up again over time, which continues the cycle of the foreplay / sex routine, which more often than not results in a boring sex life, and a lack of connection in a relationship.

How many couples out there experience their partner often not in the mood? It’s incredibly common and its disastrous to a healthy sex life, and overall a happy relationship. A female led relationship ( FLR ), changes all of that very quickly.

A female led relationship turns it around, and makes intimacy more important than sex. As a result, intimacy and foreplay become two entirely different things. As we have discussed in previous lessons, the key to intimacy, is to make a man wait until the woman is ready to have sex, which means, he is going to have to get intimate with her. So what is intimacy? It’s very similar to chivalry, expect it has a much more personal touch and personal connection.

Holding hands is the start of it, and then it morphs into much greater things, such as, simple cuddling without sex after wards, or even the expectation of it. Just being close to each other physically develops intimacy. There is also intimacy in laughter, making her laugh, and her making him laugh, develops great bonding, and makes the connection between them more likely to develop further. As the relationship grows, the intimacy deepens, where their personalities blend and mix, and they get a feel for each other.

Intimacy comes in many forms, including massages, foot rubs, running her a bath, and even doing acts like chores around the house or yard even when not asked to do so. Intimacy is about effort, a man who puts in effort, without sex being his ultimate goal, will be instantly recognized and appreciated by a woman, and the more attentive to her needs he becomes, the more she will want to take the relationship further, into foreplay, and sex. So all it takes is effort, this is an effort, that never dies, at any point in the relationship, and it only gets deeper and deeper as it goes, the more they get to know each other.

A woman in a female led relationship will recognize quickly the moment that effort dies down and will question whats going on, and through open communication about any issues that arise, they will figure it out and solve it. Intimacy is a big topic, so I will be coming back to it again in other lessons, this is just the basics of it, and why it's important for a healthy relationship where the connection between them never dies.

How Femdom Can Benefit a Woman

Jul 102019

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The advantages of a relationship where the female is the dominant and the male is the submissive can have great effects. Usually, the male is the dominant one in relationships, and this is traditionally accepted. However, there are many pros to being in a relationship where the woman is the boss, and this can even be very beneficial sexually. First, it can give the woman a stronger feeling of freedom, inside and outside of the relationship, because they have the ability to control their lives.

Second, a female who begins being dominant, especially through pleasure and pain methods will usually experience greater climaxes. Power itself is like one big drug, and when it’s used by women they can truly go from average orgasms to unimaginable orgasms. And this doesn’t only affect the intensities, but the number of orgasms they have. It is a fantastic experience that should be tried by all women in a sexual relationship.
Chastity itself even helps in relationships as it intensifies the sexual desires of the male, therefore increasing their desire for their mistress. It can save a marriage simply by giving a man desires about his wife and keeping his mind off of others making him appreciate her more. Chastity is just a very thrilling experience that may even change the whole directions of a couples sex life. In addition to that, chastity doesn’t have to be all about sex. Some couples arrange a chastity program where exercise is the main goal, such as the chastity belt will be removed after he loses 10 pounds or something along those lines.
There is a large gap between the number of truly submissive males and truly submissive females, which at first might discourage many readers who are men. However, even non-dominant women love a new experience in the bed, and again, with all these benefits, they may never go back. It is important that females get what they want in bed, and that males fulfill their desires as much as theirs are fulfilled. Dominance is a mindset that is natural and sometimes undiscovered, but it always has beneficial sides to it. If you are a male reading this article, then try femdom for your spouse, mistress, or girlfriend. If you are a female reading this, then try femdom for the new experience and the total power you will feel after experiencing it. It’s never too late to try something new.

Training your man to adapt to your female led relationship

Jan 052019

In order to train you will need to establish the things you want him to learn. You can get some from your list of relationship ideals such as fidelity and intimacy or some from your life direction goals and his cry for help. 

Generally what you want your man to learn in your female led relationship and what he wants to learn are very different. You want him to learn to overcome his bad habits, work independently, find fulfillment in growing, gain confidence in your leadership and participate as your supportive follower. He want to learn how to serve your body, obey your commands, please you sexually, humble himself and learn what it is like to surrender. Because of the difference and size of the task at hand you must choose your targets. When faced with a large number of tasks you must prioritize them, take the top ten and do as many as you can. Delegate where you can and just maintain a list of the ones that don't get done. There is, however, the added complication of keeping both of you motivated.

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The benefits for men in FLR

Jan 022019

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  • Indulge your fantasies.
  • Surrender to female authority.
  • Get closer to your Mistress by serving her body.
  • Become a better lover to your Mistress.
  • Remain confident by knowing the rules and consequences.
  • Knowing her expectations.
  • Express your willingness to submit.
  • Learning new things.
  • Helped in becoming a better lover.
  • Bring harmony to your family by serving.
  • Stop bad habits.
  • Encourage your Mistress as a successful leader.
  • Help normalize female led relationships.
  • Learn greater intimacy, connection and vulnerability.
  • Promote togetherness, connection and relationship longevity.
  • Work towards goals together.

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