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"... It's been eight years since I was last a part of the scene in Chicago. Reasons are simplified to a marriage that didn't work and a career which has kept me pretty busy. That said, now that life has somewhat settled, I find myself yearning to re-explore subspace with a Domme willing to retrain and help take those voyages with fresh eyes. In return, I pledge a partnership that is drama free, isn't all about "me me me" and, as much as I yearn for the release inherent with the joys of pain and pleasure, a promise never to top from the bottom. I think that's the correct term- I'm rusty. My only boundaries are breath and knife play. Everything else is only bordered by your imagination. As for who I am, the basics are investigative writer, lover of the arts and unapologetic nerd (author of angry dissertations on how Dr. Who has been wrecked by a clueless show-runner and why the ending of BSG remains a slap in the face). Speaking of, I am a pain-slut at least as defined by Urban Dictionary and Russian/Czech BDSM videos). As for the rest, no spoilers, feel free to find out for yourself. I am happy to entertain a dialogue with folks out of the area but not international. I don't plan on moving countries just yet. Only three quid pro quos: First, it may be a waste of perfectly good font, but no men. Second, no trans or cds. Before the angry Twitter mob descends, I am allied to everything you are/want to be. It just doesn't float my sexual boat. Lastly, I am on assignment in Indianapolis until April/May but Chicago is and remains home. But, if there is someone also wandering in the Indiana desert gasping for the broad-minded, then find me. ..."
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"... Who I am: Gentle Femdom with some mommy tendencies. (not into age play) I'm told my personality is a mix of Abby from NCIS and Penelope from Criminal Minds. Supposedly black cat energy. In the past I've had 3 submissive men (2 pets and a slave). These are the area's I have the most experiences in and I am constantly learning to continue my journey in this role. Heavy communicator. I like to ask questions, have deep conversations. What I'm into: Edging, toys, bondage, dry (for now) anr, collars, training, praise, degradation, honestly too many to list. We will have to have a discussion. What I'm not into: Anything illegal, anything people would be subjected to without their consent, human toilets, Piss, Scat, Blood play. What I'm looking for. Someone respectful. Do not call me by a title other than miss if we are not in a dynamic. Someone younger. 21+ to 35. Someone relatively local. I don't want to have to drive more than 2 hours, my time is precious as is yours. If you are interested. Please message me with your known limits. What your ideal relationship style would be and why you think that you would be a good candidate. ..."