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What Is Female Led Relationship?


Female Led Relationship

Simply put FLR is when women lead men - men who want to be led by them. Of course this happens every day in all types of situations such as business, education, healthcare and home. The phenomenon is when men want/ask women to lead in their personal lives. The man in the relationship is submissive to the Woman. He may be dominant towards others, but comes home as the strong knight that submits to his QUEEN. Of course, there are also men that will be a slave to love in everyday life as well.

FLR is the safest relationship a Woman can have. She makes the rules, sets the boundaries and she has the final saying; while the man loves and supports her in her role. In any other relationship, Women do not enjoy that kind of freedom or safety. This is a functional model for any Woman who wants more control and less strife. Many men want the woman to rule over them so FLR to men is deeper and richer than simply being led by a woman or following her in a supportive role. It is very erotic!

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Any Dominant woman who's dated online has probably longed for a better way to weed out the creeps. The idea for this site was originated in France, after two friends grew tired of hearing other women complaining about how uncomfortable online dating could be. Slave Selection which launched in 2012 in Europe is now in the US, seeking to help women find a loving submissive.

A self-proclaimed "submissive male and slave market", Slave Selection allows Women to virtually "shop" for men. It takes less than one minute to sign up, fill out your fetish profile - including pictures of yourself, your top 5 fetish kinks (among other things) and your wishList. For example an intelligent man who can cook. Give or take, Online FLR Dating is only 3 Simple Steps away.

The catch? A sub looking for dom can only contact you if he proves he is serious in the lifestyle. How's that for girl power?

Slave Selection allows you to search based on age, social type and style. Interested in a 35-year-old foot fetish boy? Check. A 25-year-old intelligent submissive trans? Check. A cuckold in Cali? Check. You don't have to answer any elaborate questions, and the site doesn't chemically calculate your compatibility. It leaves everything up to free chat and kinky love. Not only is this strong sense of control empowering, it does wonders for your self-esteem. It's so easy to get started that once you do, it's hard not to get hooked.

with more than 350,000 members, not every user on the site is looking for love. There are those looking to simply Dominatrix and slave play. Are you ready to spice up your life?


LIFESTYLE MEMBERS’ TOP INTERESTS



#1 Foot Fetish

Toe kissing and sucking, watching videos of feet, Worshiping photos of a Dom's feet, rubbing your Dominant wife’s sweaty feet after a workout, genital stimulation with feet, are some ways our Members love to play out.

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#2 Pegging / strap-on

Into butt stuff but don't quite know how to ask for it? Slave Selection is the place where you will give pegging a chance... We have thousands of Members who love to play with strap-on and dildo...

#3 Cuckold / Chastity slave

A man who willingly encourages his wife to sleep with other people because it brings him pleasure. Cuckolds exist on a spectrum between two extremes. One on end is the masochistic cuckold who enjoys humiliations, chastity, and other demeaning activities at the hands of his Dominant wife.

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Femdom bondage

#4 Bondage

Bondage, in the subculture, is the practice of consensually tying, binding, or restraining a submissive male for erotic, aesthetic, or somatosensory stimulation. A submale may be physically restrained in a variety of ways, including the use of rope, cuffs, bondage tape, or self-adhering bandage.

#5 Female Led Marriage

From moderate to extreme Female leadership. Each week, we have more and more Women seeking for a serious relationship and to make her futur husband into a servant, object, pet or slave.

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Sissy Cross dressing

#6 Crossdresser / sissy boy

Join the member's group to meet & date sissies, femboys or trans girls! Whether you are searching for a Mistress, sissy pegging, a sissygasm or simply a sissy crossdresser, Slave Selection is the largest place to meet and date people who love crossdressing lifestyle.

#7 BDSM Dominatrix

Some members are into open relationship and kinky BDSM... Dominatrix, dom, or dominant members like to date with submissive males ready to worship and play. Are you ready for Leather catsuits, claws, tail whips, and latex rubber?

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It's FREE to Place Your Femdom Personals

If you are interested in Female Led Relationship then our website is definitely the best platform for your needs. We offer a great set of features that can make your online dating experience full of fun. Start your journey today to have a memorable time with people near you.

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Women with authority

You've just found the largest Community of Femdom's lovers, submissive males, and Beautiful Women with Authority. Whether you are experienced in the lifestyle or just looking to explore it in a safe environment, Slave Selection has everything you need to satisfy your cravings... a FLR dating site and a community rolled up into one.

Chat with people just like you are looking for a connection in the lifestyle

Every day hundreds of people join Slave Selection to find FLR relationships of all kinds. Single, attached, looking to explore or just curious to discover what's out there — Slave Selection is the most open-minded dating community in the world. With our secure messaging, private rooms and search engine, you'll find everything and everyone you'll ever need right here.

Who Will You Meet at Slave Selection?

At Slave Selection, you'll meet thousands of Members looking for a Female Led Relationship. Explore your fetish with like-minded members and experiment with role play. Find a local Dominant Lady, or the lover of your dreams. Keep it online or meet in person. Slave Selection has all the tools you need to make a connection.

Whether you're new to the lifestyle and want to bring some kink into your life, or experienced and looking for new play partners, you've come to right place. As the largest site for FLR dating, more members means more locals who are ready to meet. Come on in and see who's nearby and looking for someone like you!

How To Get Started In FLR?

For the Female

Do a self-assessment of what you want from your relationship; a man as your servant mate or slave. Think through what you want to control. Slave Selection is 100% FREE for Women, but it is Important to certify your profile to have full access.

For the male

Do a self-assessment of what you want from your relationship with a woman as your leader or master!
Think through keeping yourself motivated and create a good online dating profile. Put aside all kinks and be Real. It’s important to have a profile that illustrates your positive qualities without seeming you are showing off. Put up the perfect profile photo! According to a survey of Slave Selection members, 62% of women said they wouldn’t even open a profile without a personal profile picture.

Find a Mistress

It's not easy to date a Dominant Lady, but it's even more difficult to find a true submissive male. If you're looking for a Female Led Relationship (FLR), Slave Selection is dedicated for Dominant Women that are seeking a partner for FLR, and/or a partner for D&S play! We are the #1 online community which helps people who are into FLR to chat and date! Don't hesitate to find a Woman who will tell you what to do! And Ladies, you're going to find a large selection of partners who know the true meaning of submission to female authority.

 

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