
Looking for:
"... Polyamorous living with my husband. Seeking one other lifelong partnership. Looking for a submissive or slave, to make my life easier in a healthy, loving female lead relationship. I do enjoy kink, but it’s the icing on the cake, chat to learn more about what makes me tick. Time wasters need not apply. I’m looking for something real, lasting, and genuine. Open to those who need to relocate, but you wouldn’t be living in the home with me and my husband. Ideally, you live close by so I can see you often, you’re welcome in the home, just not enough space for overnights. I’d like to keep our intimacy one on one, so we would spend time like that alone together. I have two children, from my previous marriage, and can’t have more. I’m legally blind with some vision. I’m an open book, so respectfully ask any questions you like. Don’t believe in Vito power, don’t believe in hierarchy, and yes, my partner is fully supportive. I would like for you to be monogamous to me. ..."

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"... 36 year old Domme Mistress Wife - with a successful fashion design business primarily in England and NYC but also travel widely - Divorced from an ignorant but wealthy exhusband, Discovered FLR and how have a very satisfactory marriage with now victoria (was victor) who worships Me as her Queen. Looking to chat with other FLR Queens and also sub men ..."

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"... I am an attractive, intelligent, Asian female. I can be described as “Sophisticated in the living room, Naughty in the bedroom” with an appreciation for luxury. Isn’t this what most men say they want (although maybe not the luxury part--haha!)? I’m very capable and tend to be pretty good at everything I put my mind to. I believe this is partly due to my perfectionist personality, which also makes me very particular and my expectations high. I’ve often been told that I have an intimidating personality & presence. I think this could partly be since I look very serious when I’m not smiling or joking. However, everyone who knows me knows that I’m a very nice, funny, caring, outgoing, and empathetic person who loves animals, often more than people. Perhaps it’s because they obey and don’t talk back. They just want to love me and make me happy. (Hmmm, perhaps that should have been a sign…haha!) I am a romantic at heart. So, I’m looking for a FLR which leads to marriage. I believe transparent and honest communication is paramount in all relationships, but even more so in a FLR dynamic. I'm very honest. I'm also a clear communicator, even when it comes to difficult topics, but I try to do so with respect & compassion. And I expect the same from my partner. I consider myself an amateur and a novice in the world of kink, which is where I discovered FLR. And I am NOT a Dominatrix. I consider myself a Soft-Lifestyle Domme. I enjoy a man’s desire & willingness to give up his control to me, receiving his obedience, the way he worships the ground I walk on and knowing that he’s also benefitting from the experience. However, sexual dominance is easy, common & blasé because most men would gladly & even desire being dominated in the bedroom. This is what has led me to look for a man who desires a level 3-4 female led relationship. Because these are the men who want to put my needs ahead of theirs, have an intense desire to please me & know that making me happy is what fuels their happiness & purpose in life. I love it and it makes me happy. However, these feelings apply more to men who are attractive, powerful, intelligent & successful in their real lives because the transference of power is more heightened by the level of these qualities. It’s like the power generated from a battery vs a nuclear power plant. Or catching a guppy vs catching a marlin. The guppy is cute, but catching a marlin is an accomplishment. That’s why you don’t hang guppies on the wall like a trophy. So, now here I am. Looking to experience, grow & possibly meet my match on this new journey. Do you want to join me? More importantly are you capable and worthy enough to join me? ..."

Looking for:
"... I’m a 39-year-old married man seeking a structured, service-oriented Female-Led dynamic focused on devotion and obedience to a mistress. I am not looking to replace my wife or engage in casual sexual encounters. My interest lies in offering consistent service, discipline, and surrender through domestic duties, chastity, protocol, and following direction. Chastity is an important part of how I express discipline and devotion. I am drawn to the structure and self-control it creates and would welcome a mistress who wishes to incorporate it into our dynamic. My wife and I have shared fantasies involving other women during intimacy, but I have not yet discussed pursuing a real mistress or FLR dynamic with her. I am exploring this carefully and with respect for my marriage. Discretion and clear boundaries are important to me. I find deep fulfillment in devoted service and self-discipline. I am reliable, detail-oriented, and eager to serve under a woman’s authority through routines, chores, and obedience. I have clear hard limits: no human waste, blood, public humiliation, animal/puppy play, extreme pain or bodily damage, findom, or choking/asphyxiation. I am otherwise flexible and willing to adapt to her preferences and structure. Open to remote dynamics depending on compatibility. ..."

Looking for:
"... I am a leader of people, who is almost retired; and I keep fantasizing about taking care of a woman who will spank me and smother me with her ass. Ads from real women who are not prostitutes that want marriage or a long-term relationship really gets my heart pumping. I hope to meet you, soon. Not into chastity. I do fantasize about being held as a naked prisoner in the basement, where all of YOUR dreams come true. I cum to the idea of you comfortably laying in bed, masturbating to the thought of me being your uncomfortable prisoner who MUST worship your asshole on command! ..."

Looking for:
"... I am a 30-year-old man who deeply desires a true Female Led Relationship. I am naturally submissive and find fulfillment in serving and obeying a strong, confident woman. I am ready to devote myself completely to my future Wife/Mistress in all aspects of life: household chores, decisions, and intimate worship. I am serious about marriage and long-term FLR. Looking for a genuine Dominant woman who wants a loyal, obedient husband ..."

Looking for:
"... 54 y/o single, never married, no attachments and live alone in Southern NJ. White male/TV/sissy aspiring to become a collared slave to a strict Dominant (preferably) BBW Mistress. A wide variety of D/s interests, many of which are on the 'extreme' side. Would ultimately like to find a Dominant Female for training, ownership and marriage as her owned sissy maid, but also open to chatting with like-minded others for friendship, sharing ideas, and potentially going out to clubs, events, etc. Also have a variety of vanilla interests, such as music, art, photography, cleaning. Also do woodworking and enjoy making scene related items as well as vanilla projects. Will add more later, but this is a brief intro to "me" :) ..."