
Looking for:
"... 36 year old Domme Mistress Wife - with a successful fashion design business primarily in England and NYC but also travel widely - Divorced from an ignorant but wealthy exhusband, Discovered FLR and how have a very satisfactory marriage with now victoria (was victor) who worships Me as her Queen. Looking to chat with other FLR Queens and also sub men ..."

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"... I am an attractive, intelligent, Asian female. I can be described as “Sophisticated in the living room, Naughty in the bedroom” with an appreciation for luxury. Isn’t this what most men say they want (although maybe not the luxury part--haha!)? I’m very capable and tend to be pretty good at everything I put my mind to. I believe this is partly due to my perfectionist personality, which also makes me very particular and my expectations high. I’ve often been told that I have an intimidating personality & presence. I think this could partly be since I look very serious when I’m not smiling or joking. However, everyone who knows me knows that I’m a very nice, funny, caring, outgoing, and empathetic person who loves animals, often more than people. Perhaps it’s because they obey and don’t talk back. They just want to love me and make me happy. (Hmmm, perhaps that should have been a sign…haha!) I am a romantic at heart. So, I’m looking for a FLR which leads to marriage. I believe transparent and honest communication is paramount in all relationships, but even more so in a FLR dynamic. I'm very honest. I'm also a clear communicator, even when it comes to difficult topics, but I try to do so with respect & compassion. And I expect the same from my partner. I consider myself an amateur and a novice in the world of kink, which is where I discovered FLR. And I am NOT a Dominatrix. I consider myself a Soft-Lifestyle Domme. I enjoy a man’s desire & willingness to give up his control to me, receiving his obedience, the way he worships the ground I walk on and knowing that he’s also benefitting from the experience. However, sexual dominance is easy, common & blasé because most men would gladly & even desire being dominated in the bedroom. This is what has led me to look for a man who desires a level 3-4 female led relationship. Because these are the men who want to put my needs ahead of theirs, have an intense desire to please me & know that making me happy is what fuels their happiness & purpose in life. I love it and it makes me happy. However, these feelings apply more to men who are attractive, powerful, intelligent & successful in their real lives because the transference of power is more heightened by the level of these qualities. It’s like the power generated from a battery vs a nuclear power plant. Or catching a guppy vs catching a marlin. The guppy is cute, but catching a marlin is an accomplishment. That’s why you don’t hang guppies on the wall like a trophy. So, now here I am. Looking to experience, grow & possibly meet my match on this new journey. Do you want to join me? More importantly are you capable and worthy enough to join me? ..."

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"... In 2021 when I left my 38 year marriage my ex-wife said "You'll never find another person in this whole world who loves you as much as I do." My recently ex-girlfriend of 5 years said "You're the kindest man I've ever known." That's a lot for me to live up to. I am financially secure. I still work weekdays online 8a to 3p Central Standard Time bc I love what I do. I'm soft spoken. I dress well and make a nice impression. I like to stay clean and smell good. I like to cook, clean house, write pornography for my S.O. My son is grown, successful with a wonderful family. I don't have any contact with my exes. I like dogs and cats but don't have any. I'll have a gummy with you but I don't do drugs. I'll have a drink with you but I don't drink in excess. I'm allergic to smoke. I try to eat clean and healthy. I go to the gym twice a day for aerobics and a bit of resistance training. I try to keep my weight around 200 pounds. The doctor said I'm healthy and I passed all their tests. I don't have unprotected sex. I've never been arrested for anything. I'm not religious or political. I'm not on any social media sites and have never been on a dating site. I'm new to FLR but am really good at following instructions, loyal, devoted, very accepting and sensitive to others wants and needs. I love to bring joy, happiness and pleasure into other's lives. I measure wealth in: A quiet calendar. Presence. Simplicity. Hours of serenity. No debt. People I love who love me back. Good relationships. Sharing. Mornings and evenings on the porch swing holding hands. Nutritious diet. Home cooked meals. Good health. Fitness. Mornings I wake refreshed. How easily I can say "No, Thank You" and walk away. Pleasant weather. Beautiful view. Creative work. Time that belongs only to me. I'm planning to relocate to the desert in the near future due to allergens here in Houston. ..."

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"... I am flirting with the idea of becoming a VIP member but until that point uou can reach me at Hank 0086 at Gmail Dot com if you have interest. I'm divorced for 2 years from a femdom marriage when my former wife decided to leave kink but I did not. I take Direction well and believe in protocols and complete respectful control. I say respectful as I think it is a good thing to have conversations around major life issues that involve a couple, but the Female Leader should make the final decision. ..."

Looking for:
"... An intelligent, articulate, caring, and well-educated man who has been divorced for six years. My 30+ year marriage was very traditional and now that I am ready to enter into another LTR I decided to give an FLR a try, I would love to find a Love Goddess to worship and serve! I am comfortably semi-retired after a successful career but am also working on my own tech startup. I lead a very active lifestyle and am in very good shape. I work out regularly at the gym, practice yoga, and love to hike or do anything outdoors. I have a lot of have experience in this lifestyle, including being trained by a professional Domme for five years, with whom I had a strong friendship as well as frequent sessions. Depending on your level of Dominance and required level of submission I may need further training and customization, but I look forward to that process. I love giving massages and am a Certified Massage Therapist with over 1000 hours of training. I also like giving manicures and pedicures. For the right woman I would relocate. ..."