
Looking for:
"... I'm Ava, 30, married pansexual and polyamorous. South Carolina. Sensual Dom. Total nerd. I don't respond well to being called Mistress. It's not my preferred title. Call me Ava until I ask you to use my preferred title. My husband is bi, we had a bf together. I separately have a GF. Her husband, herself, my husband, and myself are friends. I've also started dating a women, Bea, separately from her husband or my husband. I am using pseudonyms here. If we hit it off, I'll totally tell you my real. ..."

Looking for:
"... Why do Dominants (alpha) like this lifestyle? Having control over another person's life or body can feel very empowering. The knowledge that you now have power over someone else, and they will not only willingly but gladly submit to your will, can be very exciting. People choose a BDSM lifestyle for different reasons. Someone might be attracted to it because of a book, a magazine, a movie, heard about it from a friend etc. Most people like BDSM to experiment with control. A Mistress as a Master enjoy being in charge, having the control and power over others.. ..."