- Female Domination lifestyle Personals.
TousledElegance, Santa Fe Springs California
Looking for:
"... Miss, not Ma'am! Redhead, 190 lbs, deceptively baby-faced, naughty Librarian pinup meets Goth Mommy GF, smart, sassy, compassionate with an edge. Greyromantic and Megasexual... D/s (a balance of both sexual and non) is the key to me possibly eventually developing romantic feelings. But, I don't jump into a Dynamic- we build gradually and that is exciting. I am focused on the psychological aspect of kink and assisted by the physical. While not a Soft Domme, I prefer to seduce, coax and praise. I describe Myself as a Sensual Sadist, as I enjoy men who like to show off for Me in order to earn pleasurable rewards from Me, but will speak up when they truly reach their threshold or have a boundary. My brand of degradation and humiliation is more about drawing out embarrassing fantasies and [consensually] coercing you into you into doing those dirty things, then Slut Praising rather than shaming. I also enjoy subtle Dominance in Public- things that are "hidden kink" that only a fellow Kinkster would notice. I don't view submissives as weak, pathetic, losers or any of the porn site search term fodder. But, make no mistake, your vulnerability, discomfort and writhing are very satisfying to me. I don't do Punishments- I prefer Consequences instead (e.g. negotiating a soft limit you don't particularly enjoy, but I do) and the only Discipline I am interested in is self-discipline (Mine and yours). **My vanilla interests include:** Rock-n-Roll music, Horror, True Crime, cats, Cultural Arts, Tarology, Meditation, Dead Formats, trivia, cards, retro gaming, Vintage Pop Culture, Tiki/Lounge subculture, History, Science, reading, writing, nature, FIFA Soccer. ..."