- Female Domination lifestyle Personals.
SereneControl, Flanders Connecticut
Looking for:
"... I am an attractive, intelligent, Asian female. I can be described as “Sophisticated in the living room, Naughty in the bedroom” with an appreciation for luxury. Isn’t this what most men say they want (although maybe not the luxury part--haha!)? I’m very capable and tend to be pretty good at everything I put my mind to. I believe this is partly due to my perfectionist personality, which also makes me very particular and my expectations high. I’ve often been told that I have an intimidating personality & presence. I think this could partly be since I look very serious when I’m not smiling or joking. However, everyone who knows me knows that I’m a very nice, funny, caring, outgoing, and empathetic person who loves animals, often more than people. Perhaps it’s because they obey and don’t talk back. They just want to love me and make me happy. (Hmmm, perhaps that should have been a sign…haha!) I am a romantic at heart. So, I’m looking for a FLR which leads to marriage. I believe transparent and honest communication is paramount in all relationships, but even more so in a FLR dynamic. I'm very honest. I'm also a clear communicator, even when it comes to difficult topics, but I try to do so with respect & compassion. And I expect the same from my partner. I consider myself an amateur and a novice in the world of kink, which is where I discovered FLR. And I am NOT a Dominatrix. I consider myself a Soft-Lifestyle Domme. I enjoy a man’s desire & willingness to give up his control to me, receiving his obedience, the way he worships the ground I walk on and knowing that he’s also benefitting from the experience. However, sexual dominance is easy, common & blasé because most men would gladly & even desire being dominated in the bedroom. This is what has led me to look for a man who desires a level 3-4 female led relationship. Because these are the men who want to put my needs ahead of theirs, have an intense desire to please me & know that making me happy is what fuels their happiness & purpose in life. I love it and it makes me happy. However, these feelings apply more to men who are attractive, powerful, intelligent & successful in their real lives because the transference of power is more heightened by the level of these qualities. It’s like the power generated from a battery vs a nuclear power plant. Or catching a guppy vs catching a marlin. The guppy is cute, but catching a marlin is an accomplishment. That’s why you don’t hang guppies on the wall like a trophy. So, now here I am. Looking to experience, grow & possibly meet my match on this new journey. Do you want to join me? More importantly are you capable and worthy enough to join me? ..."
EffinLady, Flanders Connecticut
Looking for:
"... I'm a beautiful, intelligent and happy African American woman who naturally takes the lead, so why deny myself that or anything else? I'm looking for a long-term FLR, a healthy dose of kink with a man that is willing to be trained to meet my expectations because he understands that he earns his own pleasure by doing so. I am stern but compassionate, knowing that full submission happens slowly but I have NO interest in being topped from the bottom. I haven't experienced polyamory but may want to share you with another man. For me this is beyond denial, submission or the kink of it all but instead about trust, pleasure and both parties getting their needs met, understanding what those expectations are and communicating when they change. I'm looking for a public-Alpha male who is successful in his field but is aware of his need to submit his control to me! I am bi-coastal so LA boys considered. ..."