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"... I want a disciplinarian, to bend me over their lap or something and then have them hand spank me. 30 swats over my pants then take those down, 30 swats over my undies, then take those down and give the final 30 swats on my bare bottom. The swats should sting a little bit and by the time the spanking is done, my butt should be a nice shade of pink/red, but no bruises or marks should be left. Then I want to be turned into a tickle slave. I get stripped naked, tied up and blindfold, and then get ruthlessly/mercilessly tickled with every tickle tool possible such as baby oil/massage oil, fingers/fingernails, feathers, electric toothbrush, soft bristled paint brushes, tongue etc... and it happens as often as u want, as many times as u want, whenever u want, for as long as u want; whenever we're together. In doing so, I also become you're stress reliever. If you'd like to, you can also have friends come to tickle me with u or while u just watch as I suffer, and your friends can occasionally swat me too if they'd like to. I would also like to be edged and therefore become more and more sensitive to the tickling each time I get edged...Once I become the tickle toy/tickle slave I also want to be given rules to follow or I will be given extra spankings and extra tickling as punishment. In doing all of this, u can also make me cook, clean, and wait on u hand and foot. If I do something wrong or not fast enough, I get punished with the above mentioned things. U also reserve the right to playfully tease and tickle me as I'm working or doing whatever u have me doing to try to mess me up so that u can punish me. We can also come up with different games/scenarios to make the tickling/ spankings more interesting from time to time. Men, I don't give oral. I can't host and I only have a couple of the tools needed for this, but not all. ..."
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"... Generally what you want your man to learn in your female led relationship and what he wants to learn are very different. You want him to learn to overcome his bad habits, work independently, find fulfillment in growing, gain confidence in your leadership and participate as your supportive follower. He want to learn how to serve your body, obey your commands, please you sexually, humble himself and learn what it is like to surrender. Because of the difference and size of the task at hand you must choose your targets. When faced with a large number of tasks you must prioritize them, take the top ten and do as many as you can. Delegate where you can and just maintain a list of the ones that don't get done. There is, however, the added complication of keeping both of you motivated. ..."