
Looking for:
"... Be my new toy. Use you. Degrade you. Command and humiliate you. It's as easy as picking a verb. Let’s face it: you will never measure up. You require the control of a dominant female. I am INCREDIBLY picky and prefer quality over quantity. Long term preferred. High IQ and EQ required. I am NOT a pro-domme. Be original or you'll be ignored. FLR, kink, kinky, bdsm, chastity, femdom, GGG, RACK, SSC, Dominant, Domme, bondage, discipline, hotwife. Be specific in what you seek. The BDSM world is endless...I expect you have already gone down the rabbit hole and explored what works for you. I have my own specific interests and limitations. If you are still exploring yours, share with me what you have tried and what you still seek. I know immediately whether or not we are a good fit. Our time on this planet is limited. The second you waste mine, you are gone. I read *most* messages and respond to very few. Be prepared to sell yourself. ************************************* Prior to requesting to see private photos respectfully introduce yourself and explain what it is you are looking for - otherwise, your message WILL be ignored. If you don't have any photos chances are I won't take you seriously. If you just created your account wait until you get approved before contacting. ..."

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"... I have been in this lifestyle for 5 years and I genuinely enjoy dealing with submissive and slave of all genders and persuasions whilst the activities that please me range from the seductive and sensual to the more extreme. ..."

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"... Straight single Lifestyle'r Seductive Goddess that is Sapiosexual ( One who finds intelligence the sexually most attractive feature ) I have been in the lifestyle now for 15 years this Holiday season. I live alone with no kids in my Castle with playroom and toys... I believe in safety and aftercare. One of my greatest joys is teaching protocol and discipline. A good mind fuck is what I crave and without these things I am not complete. There is always constant growth and learning with both parties.I do believe in aftercare with my sub/slave, whether he is a play partner or a collared submissive/slave. I will guide, protect and mentor you to succeed in achieving your goals and mine. I'll provide a safe, sane and comfortable place for consensual play and treasure your dedication. Before we start training or play we will discuss our erotic scenes so you will have piece of mind. Honest communication builds up trust and respect. I believe in respecting hard limits and a safe word.... My Ideal Person I have been out of the scene for over a year. I met a man and thought I could engage in a vanilla relationship only to get bored out of my mind... That is why I'm back to find you.. I got to realize the reason most vanilla relationships is because a vanilla lifestyle is such a regular one while the BDSM lifestyle adds a lot of sauce either through pleasure or pains depending on the kinks... 1. Take into account that great love and great achievements involve great risk. 2. When you lose, don't lose the lesson. 3. Follow the three Rs: Respect for self Respect for others and Responsibility for all your actions. 4. Remember that not getting what you want is sometimes a wonderful stroke of luck. 5. Learn the rules so you know how to break them properly. 6. Don't let a little dispute injure a great friendship. 7. When you realize you've made a mistake, take immediate steps to correct it. 8. Spend some time alone every day. 9. Open your arms to change, but don't let go of your values. 10. Remember that silence is sometimes the best answer. 11. Live a good, honorable life. Then when you get older and think back, you'll be able to enjoy it a second time. 12. A loving atmosphere in your home is the foundation for your life. 13. In disagreements with loved ones, deal only with the current situation. Don't bring up the past. 14. Share your knowledge. It's a way to achieve immortality. 15. Be gentle with the earth. 16. Once a year, go someplace you've never been before. 17. Remember that the best relationship is one in which your love for each other exceeds your need for each other. 19. Approach love and cooking with reckless abandon. 20. Follow my lead and you will have no fear... ..."