- Female Domination lifestyle Personals.
SereneControl, Shokan New York
Looking for:
"... I am an attractive, intelligent, Asian female. I can be described as “Sophisticated in the living room, Naughty in the bedroom” with an appreciation for luxury. Isn’t this what most men say they want (although maybe not the luxury part--haha!)? I’m very capable and tend to be pretty good at everything I put my mind to. I believe this is partly due to my perfectionist personality, which also makes me very particular and my expectations high. I’ve often been told that I have an intimidating personality & presence. I think this could partly be since I look very serious when I’m not smiling or joking. However, everyone who knows me knows that I’m a very nice, funny, caring, outgoing, and empathetic person who loves animals, often more than people. Perhaps it’s because they obey and don’t talk back. They just want to love me and make me happy. (Hmmm, perhaps that should have been a sign…haha!) I am a romantic at heart. So, I’m looking for a FLR which leads to marriage. I believe transparent and honest communication is paramount in all relationships, but even more so in a FLR dynamic. I'm very honest. I'm also a clear communicator, even when it comes to difficult topics, but I try to do so with respect & compassion. And I expect the same from my partner. I consider myself an amateur and a novice in the world of kink, which is where I discovered FLR. And I am NOT a Dominatrix. I consider myself a Soft-Lifestyle Domme. I enjoy a man’s desire & willingness to give up his control to me, receiving his obedience, the way he worships the ground I walk on and knowing that he’s also benefitting from the experience. However, sexual dominance is easy, common & blasé because most men would gladly & even desire being dominated in the bedroom. This is what has led me to look for a man who desires a level 3-4 female led relationship. Because these are the men who want to put my needs ahead of theirs, have an intense desire to please me & know that making me happy is what fuels their happiness & purpose in life. I love it and it makes me happy. However, these feelings apply more to men who are attractive, powerful, intelligent & successful in their real lives because the transference of power is more heightened by the level of these qualities. It’s like the power generated from a battery vs a nuclear power plant. Or catching a guppy vs catching a marlin. The guppy is cute, but catching a marlin is an accomplishment. That’s why you don’t hang guppies on the wall like a trophy. So, now here I am. Looking to experience, grow & possibly meet my match on this new journey. Do you want to join me? More importantly are you capable and worthy enough to join me? ..."
SweetDomme, Shokan New York
Looking for:
"... I'm a single woman who knows what she wants, and I want to be spoiled, worshipped, and to have a relation with a sub who attends to my every need sexually and emotionally. In return, I will always let you know how to make me feel good, and will reward you for going above and beyond to please me. Outside of our fetish life, I want a long-term female lead relationship (FLR) that is intimate and mostly vanilla to the public eye. Aside from what I enjoy in the bedroom, I also like gaming, reading, having intellectual conversations, and cold weather. I want to have children, whether that's with my future partner, or a bull that we choose together. While I ache to bear children, I will not do so until I can find a supportive partner with whom to raise our children. I want my future partner to take that journey with me, and I hope that's you who's reading this right now ? I am not interested in a sex only or online only relationship at this time; I am ready to find my life partner. I'm an introvert, so I do need my alone time to recharge, but I'll always let you know when I've reached my limit. I have asthma and cannot be around cigarette smoke so please pass by if you are a smoker. Message me if you’d like to know more ? ..."
Coconutjezebel, Shokan New York
Looking for:
"... My style is subtle but absolute. I specialize in control that feels like worship, obedience that becomes devotion, and denial that makes you ache in all the right ways. I’m not interested in brat taming or chaos — I want the kind of submissive who already knows they’re meant to serve. If you’re ready to be trained, used, and rewired for my pleasure — silently, consistently, without complaint — then perhaps I’ll allow you to begin. ..."