- Female Domination lifestyle Personals.
Vivianlee2323, Lodi Ohio
Looking for:
"... Why do Dominants (alpha) like this lifestyle? Having control over another person's life or body can feel very empowering. The knowledge that you now have power over someone else, and they will not only willingly but gladly submit to your will, can be very exciting. People choose a BDSM lifestyle for different reasons. Someone might be attracted to it because of a book, a magazine, a movie, heard about it from a friend etc. Most people like BDSM to experiment with control. A Mistress as a Master enjoy being in charge, having the control and power over others.. ..."
TousledElegance, Lodi Ohio
Looking for:
"... Miss, not Ma'am! Redhead, 190 lbs, deceptively baby-faced, naughty Librarian pinup meets Goth Mommy GF, smart, sassy, compassionate with an edge. Megasexual: essentially, the opposite of Demisexual; I require a strong physical connection before I am capable of developing an emotional one. Power Exchange happens to be a catalyst for me. I am focused on the psychological aspect of kink and assisted by the physical. While not a Soft Domme, I prefer to seduce, coax and praise. I describe Myself as a Sensual Sadist, as I enjoy men who like to show off for Me in order to earn pleasurable rewards from Me, but will speak up when they truly reach their threshold or have a boundary. My brand of degradation and humiliation is more about drawing out embarrassing fantasies and [consensually] coercing you into you into doing those dirty things, then Slut Praising rather than shaming. I also enjoy subtle Dominance in Public- things that are "hidden kink" that only a fellow Kinkster would notice. I don't view submissives as weak, pathetic, losers or any of the porn site search term fodder. But, make no mistake, your vulnerability, discomfort and writhing are very satisfying to me. I don't do Punishments- I prefer Consequences instead (e.g. negotiating a soft limit you don't particularly enjoy, but I do) and the only Discipline I am interested in is self-discipline (Mine and yours). **My vanilla interests include:** Rock-n-Roll music, Horror, True Crime, cats, Cultural Arts, Tarology, Meditation, Dead Formats, trivia, cards, retro gaming, Vintage Pop Culture, Tiki/Lounge subculture, History, Science, reading, writing, nature, FIFA Soccer. ..."