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"... I started domination my submissive male over ten years ago. When I write that I want to be clear about what that means. Neither of us were interested in mere dress up games that ended in a mild spanking and sex. We were both interested in real full time power exchange. I have taken him further than either one of us thought was possible. We used everything in the usual arsenal of S&M and some things we made up as we went along. it has been the greatest adventure of our lives. After a real breakthrough in his surrender I decided to write about us. I posted it recently under the title of Finding Love Through Female Domination. We are interested in couple on the same path. ..."
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"... The underlying thing that keeps my engine running is the experience and analysis of new sensations and situations. As I have learned a little bit more about the lifestyle I am finding my happy place. While I don't think I'll ever be not "evolving" I know what I want and don't want. Keep it moving if you aren't really committed to learning. I did not come here by way of a certain book/movie. There may be certain roles we are all inclined to, but there is a tremendous learning curve between what you think this is, and what this actually is. I am more than an assemblage of body parts and a collection of kinks. If you are out to reduce women (or anyone) to just that, we are not simpatico. If you are out to simply get your jollies off without regard to your partner, we aren't gonna jive. If you don't think that trust is at the foundation of every play negotiation, scene, relationship, we have a fundamentally different world view. I take my role very seriously. Do not think that softness, or kindness, or interest in your life is weakness. I am not a woman trying to emulate the dynamics of a male Dom with their sub, I am my own unique self trying to remain authentic, and true to me first. Understand it is far more likely your bits will be under my command and control far before you get the whiff of mine. ..."