今日でも「カッコールド」という言葉は使われていますが、かつてのように侮辱的な意味ではなく、性的フェティッシュとして広く愛されています。「カッコールディング」とは、男性とそのパートナーが、女性が別の男性と性行為をすることで性的快感を得るプレイです。しばしば、男性パートナーは「強制的に」妻や恋人が他の男性と関係を持つのを見ることになります。このフェティッシュは、羞恥心や被支配願望からくるマゾヒズム的愛の一形態であり、BDSMのサブカテゴリでもあります。多くの「カック(Cuck)」と自称する男性にとって、このプレイの魅力は、日常生活の制約からの解放、つまり逃避の感覚にあります。

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