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"... I'm Dominant, alpha Girl, articulate and sexy! I have a diverse range of hobbies and interests from rock music to weight lifting and ballet to boxing. I work out a lot as it clears my head and makes me feel good. The sexiest thing a man can have is a chastity cage! Some of you have really good profiles that have put my four lines to shame so here we go... I like wine, I like steak oh and giant chocolate buttons. I'm a big believer in never judging a book by its cover. I think I've read wuthering heights that many times I can pretty much quote the first chapter. I hate blood so I can't watch anything in the least bit gory, I went to see paradise lost knowing it was an 18 and interested, anyway I had to leave the cinema because I was literally fainting so I'm a bit of a wimp in that sense, but don't be fooled I'm a tough little thing and my squat has reached 90kg haha. I imagine it must be a personality thing but bizzare things seem to happen around me. I love a good natter but and most of all I love BDSM. I find people take life way too seriously. Anyway hopefully this makes for a better read now! ..."
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"... Straight single Lifestyle'r Seductive Goddess that is Sapiosexual ( One who finds intelligence the sexually most attractive feature ) I have been in the lifestyle now for 15 years this Holiday season. I live alone with no kids in my Castle with playroom and toys... I believe in safety and aftercare. One of my greatest joys is teaching protocol and discipline. A good mind fuck is what I crave and without these things I am not complete. There is always constant growth and learning with both parties.I do believe in aftercare with my sub/slave, whether he is a play partner or a collared submissive/slave. I will guide, protect and mentor you to succeed in achieving your goals and mine. I'll provide a safe, sane and comfortable place for consensual play and treasure your dedication. Before we start training or play we will discuss our erotic scenes so you will have piece of mind. Honest communication builds up trust and respect. I believe in respecting hard limits and a safe word.... My Ideal Person I have been out of the scene for over a year. I met a man and thought I could engage in a vanilla relationship only to get bored out of my mind... That is why I'm back to find you.. I got to realize the reason most vanilla relationships is because a vanilla lifestyle is such a regular one while the BDSM lifestyle adds a lot of sauce either through pleasure or pains depending on the kinks... 1. Take into account that great love and great achievements involve great risk. 2. When you lose, don't lose the lesson. 3. Follow the three Rs: Respect for self Respect for others and Responsibility for all your actions. 4. Remember that not getting what you want is sometimes a wonderful stroke of luck. 5. Learn the rules so you know how to break them properly. 6. Don't let a little dispute injure a great friendship. 7. When you realize you've made a mistake, take immediate steps to correct it. 8. Spend some time alone every day. 9. Open your arms to change, but don't let go of your values. 10. Remember that silence is sometimes the best answer. 11. Live a good, honorable life. Then when you get older and think back, you'll be able to enjoy it a second time. 12. A loving atmosphere in your home is the foundation for your life. 13. In disagreements with loved ones, deal only with the current situation. Don't bring up the past. 14. Share your knowledge. It's a way to achieve immortality. 15. Be gentle with the earth. 16. Once a year, go someplace you've never been before. 17. Remember that the best relationship is one in which your love for each other exceeds your need for each other. 19. Approach love and cooking with reckless abandon. 20. Follow my lead and you will have no fear... ..."