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"... If your married or committed to someone else either legally or morally. Keep on, keeping on somewhere else. I don’t cheat nor will I condone it at all. It’s non-negotiable. Cockholding/wife-swapping are not my thing either. Now that the disclaimers are over with. FYI: I'm a FetDom. Not abusive (BDSM/pain crap/stuff) or degrading and can be very sensual if I'm into you. I’m seeking more of a Female Led Relationship. I hate small talk or endless messages back and forth that go nowhere. I want to talk and learn about atoms, intellect, the meaning of life, what's the name of your car, psychology and cooking. Not the size of your ding dong, not how much you earn and what you drive, etc. Unless it's finance and business... Love that stuff. I've been asked, so I'll post it up front. I'm apparently an ENTP according or Meyers-Brigg. And yes, it's fairly accurate at this point. I'm from Hawaii and run on Hawaiian time. I have to work hard at being on time. "The late worm doesn’t get eaten by the early bird" is my motto. I'm not following any special dietary needs or counting anything... Although if I do get fat, I pray it goes to the boobs and butt first. I'm not lonely, broke or needing my bills paid. Not having a mid-life crisis and if I am it's seriously boring. I'm actually surprisingly happy, never really unhappy and get over stuff really fast. I've returned to school full-time and am studying Organizational Psychology/Business. I was a trained Chef for years, and also a military veteran and have moved on from the kitchen pirate life. Best kitchen quote: WTF??? We live in a world where people will eat ass, but not gluten!! Here's my favorite quote at the moment: "Look for the job that you would take, if you didn't need a job. I mean, don't sleep walk through life and don't say it's all gonna be great. I'm gonna do this and I'm gonna do that. I'm just marking time until I get to be older. That's just like saving up sex for your old age. It's not a good idea. You really wanna be, what you enjoy doing." -Warren Buffet ..."
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"... My ideal relationship: I have a kink, a fantasy, of playing a dominant role in many people’s lives. This looks like dominating your time, attention, and money. To clarify, I am not exclusively looking for findom arrangements. However, I do expect to be spoiled and pampered accordingly. If I want it, I expect it from you. If you cannot provide it, you will be punished*. Punishments that interest me include (but are not limited to) putting a leash on you and taking you for a walk like a pet, neglect, collaring, and pain punishment. I am not looking for a sexual counterpart or someone to fulfill me sexually in anyway. I have a partner who is willing to do anything I am passionate about- so I am not lacking in this arena. If you provide what it is I desire, you will be rewarded... with something you crave. Such as my time, attention, and physical presence, which may manifest in an array of desirable and pleasurable ways for you. To reiterate, I am not doing this for my own sexual satisfaction. Whatever fulfillment you derive from your rewards as my sub is your business. I understand that conversations about you giving me money may make you uncomfortable. But I want you to keep something in mind: money is the ultimate gift to me, it solidifies your loyalty and your place as my sub; and until it is involved in this arrangement, my attention will be conditional and fleeting. If you are seriously interested in me being your domme but have questions, feel free to message me. Ultimately, I intend to have your best interest at heart, and should you become my slave would ensure that none of your boundaries are violated. ..."