- Female Domination lifestyle Personals.
THESHOEQUEEN, Schiller Park Illinois
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"... “Serving me means contributing to my life. Being useful to me. Creating value. Making my life easier and more beautiful.” Accountability and morals are paramount to me. I lead a professional life and value connections with class. With that said, if you have a cock as your introduction image, I won’t even reply. Polite compliments and conversations are always welcomed. I desire a relationship. And what a relationship means to me is spending a good amount of time together in real life getting to know each other. Meet me for lunch, meet me for dinner, meet me for an event. That’s a hard limit for me. I want a relationship, not a play partner, not a session partner, not an online relationship You will not be in my bed until I decide if I want something more with you. If you want an occasional casual date, I’m not your Domme. Don’t waste my time. Expect to chat for a few days and then exchange phone numbers. If exchanging phone numbers is a hard limit for you, move along. I can smell bullshit a mile away when you say “I had a stalker and I don’t give out my number.” Tell your wife or current girlfriend that I said hi. I am real, and I know what I want. I will let you know quickly if you aren’t him. Don’t let that discourage you from contacting me, I simply stated all this to save us both some time and regret. All of my relationships have been with very strong men, accomplished manly men, but submissive to me. I enjoy that exchange of power when they come in that door from being in charge all day and then it becomes all about service to me. I don’t like men who can’t hold their own with me. I’m not looking for someone to walk 3 feet behind me, I want someone beside me. Maybe a half step back. 😉. Someone intelligent who can hold a conversation. Isn’t overly religious or political. Someone who loves to laugh and enjoy life. If you aren’t already happy, no relationship will make you happy. It might make you happier but not the happy you need to be to start a relationship. I love dining out, but I’m not a real exotic eater. I love basic ingredients cooked well.I love to be cooked for. I love to have things brought to me on a tray. I love service, I love to be catered to. I love to be adored. But I want it from a strong man, not a sissy, which is a really hard combination to find. I’m not into putting men in women’s panties or clothing, though again there’s a lot of guys who want that which is fine, just not for me. Think Boyfriend/ Butler/ chef/ chauffeur/ bodyguard that’s the kind of guy I need. I love sex, I love oral sex. If you don’t love it, game over. I’m actually a Domme who enjoys giving blowjobs, because I’m in total control at that point. I decide when you get off …. or not. Chastity in some form is desired. I have a diva personality, but that doesn’t mean I won’t take a crop to you to correct your behavior and put you in your place which is kneeling on the floor in front of me. I like a man who plans surprises. I like a man who dresses well outside of work hours and takes care of his appearance. I like a smooth shaved face with shorter hair. Blue or white collar employment careers are equal in my eyes. I need a man who exercises, or has a job that keeps him trim. You must be tactile, enjoy holding hands, rubbing shoulders, giving massages. Someone who learns what I like, and provides it without asking. Anticipatory service. Someone who gets off on my happiness and is just a little frightened when I’m not happy. Someone gregarious who enjoys entertaining friends, and can appear vanilla in many circumstances. I’m not an extremist, I’m not a fanatic, I’m not a fetish lifestyle cheerleader. I’m not parading you around on a leash outside of the house. Inside the house? That’s negotiable.😈 I do engage with other friends I’ve met on Fetlife and enjoy attending munches and meet ups, but I’m not a dungeon queen. I’ll go to a dungeon party, but just to socialize. The closest I come to public play is giving away my yearly spankings at a birthday celebration. I don’t switch. Ever. If your profile says you’re dominant, don’t contact me. I can’t stand men that hide behind a dominant name, but want to submit to me. You must be single and unattached. ..."
MissNeiu, Schiller Park Illinois
Looking for:
"... Personally, I am unconventional, open and dominate by nature. I'm gentle in leading but controlling when it is needed. I can be strict, direct and terrible at small talk. I enjoy deep, probing conversations that demonstrate a certain sense of intelligence and vulnerability. Because of this, I tend to cut right through all the noise to see if we even connect enough to go this far. This does balance out with my sweet, nice side. I'd say, for me, I'm looking for someone who knows about the lifestyle. Even if it is just the basics (as long as they are open to understanding it fully in relation to me). Someone intelligent, sweet, attentive and does with out being lead at times. Someone who wants what they will have with me, not someone doing it just because... Someone devoted, loyal and kind, who speaks politely and with manners. And someone who brings more to the table than their desire to simply serve. I'd like to have someone who wants to be apart of my realm. If you think this may be you and also find interest in mine, and what I offer, feel free to DM me here. Interests(roughly) Exploring fetishes/Food/Anime/Beautiful things Animals/Books/Holistic health/The Aternative/connection/metaphysics/Elegant things ..."