- Female Domination lifestyle Personals.
EffinLady, Monrovia California
Looking for:
"... I'm a beautiful, intelligent and happy African American woman who naturally takes the lead, so why deny myself that or anything else? I'm looking for a long-term FLR, a healthy dose of kink with a man that is willing to be trained to meet my expectations because he understands that he earns his own pleasure by doing so. I am stern but compassionate, knowing that full submission happens slowly but I have NO interest in being topped from the bottom. I haven't experienced polyamory but may want to share you with another man. For me this is beyond denial, submission or the kink of it all but instead about trust, pleasure and both parties getting their needs met, understanding what those expectations are and communicating when they change. I'm looking for a public-Alpha male who is successful in his field but is aware of his need to submit his control to me! I am bi-coastal so LA boys considered. ..."
MsSage, Monrovia California
Looking for:
"... I have been in this lifestyle for over 12 years. I am an experienced in both online and in person interactions. In the 12 years since I discovered this side of life, I have learned what makes a good sub, how to train a good sub what makes a good Domme, and above all, how to integrate my needs as a Domme with the needs of my subs. What good is a Domme that doesn't understand the reasons someone wants to submit? Domination is not about oppression, it's about knowing another person fully and being worthy of their trust to the degree that they want to turn over control to you. It's a serious responsibility outside of mere bedroom games. What I'm looking for in a sub is someone that has a real need to turn over that control, and trust me enough or learn how, to give that up to me. For my part, I vow to be worthy of that trust and to make the submission experience beyond anything the sub hoped or imagine. Findom is a very specialized kink, but the Domme aspect still stands true, and a real findomme knows that. ..."