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"... i am a domme looking for a relationship. id like to start online and see where things go. all im really looking for is someone that is loyal, honest, and willing to invest the time (that last one seems hard to find!). im also always looking for friends so feel free to HMU if you just want to chat. ..."
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"... Hello my name is Asha Star. I'm a Powerful & Creative Dominant, A mature & intelligent woman who knows how to create magical moments that are exhilarating & unforgettable. An exotic mixture of European, Native American & Polynesian decent, my soft skin & delicious busty hourglass figure will leave you pleading for my attention & loving gaze. I enjoy connection & passion in life, I love to play with all the delicious possibilities. I keep myself looking & feeling great with regular meditation, yoga & pilates. I work with tantric breathing practices & love to play with all the delicious electricity that can be created between myself & others. I very much enjoy playing with power dynamics & sensation. I am a muse, I've inspired amazing art & creativity in those who come to adore me. I spend my free time playing violin, mandolin & other instruments. Sound is a powerful & universal healing force. I absolutely love creating beauty with flowers & plants. I relish the opportunity to take in amazing film, art, performance, fashion, architecture & design. I'm well traveled domestically as well as internationally. My conscious relationship to BDSM began when I moved to the SF Bay Area in the mid-90s. I began working at a professional dungeon called The Castlebar in SF's SOMA. It was an amazing place to come into my relationship to BDSM per se. The space was epic, classy (for the period) & impeccably stocked with high quality equipment & furniture. It was a hub for kinky community across the board in terms of sexual identity. Video shoots where done there, classes & emersion workshops were held regularly. Play & sex parties along with professional D/s/Sswitch sessions were available. I was able to attend all workshops & DM @ events as well as access the extensive library. I had the honor of learning from some world renowned teachers over the years. Working there was like a community BDSM college. I went on to work at several high end fetish boutiques doing sales, buying, management, workshop coordination & styling. I've also been a muse/fetish model for several local & international visionaries. Moving forward from that point I had many powerful, spiritual, personal & professional experiences with people of all genders & walks of life in this context. Throughout my 20's I was dyke identified & primarily dated butch women & trans persons. Moving into my 30's I began to explore my personal sexuality with men, couples & feminine women. I identify as Queer. In saying so, I communicate that I have an equal attraction to people of all genders including male, female, trans, intersex & genderqueer or non-binary persons. I enjoy kinky, fetishistic, poly, ethical & even vanilla human relationships. Heart centered connection & good, healthy communication are essential elements for my involvement. I'm a spiritual person with many healthy lifestyle practices. I have had many relationships (involving varied negotiated dynamics) with committed couples & groups of friends. I've even tried less kinky monogamous relationships. I know how to respect boundaries & get clear about what the agreements are. I am also clear that dynamics are constantly evolving so continued communication is necessary. I am above all respectful of boundaries & committed to a transformative communication process. I love being served & worshiped. Taking care of those who serve Me is also very fulfilling to Me. I very much enjoy being appreciated, adored & taken care of. I believe that there is a strong potential for deep &profound healing through the practice of consensual sex, love & power play. It's cathartic. It's magic. ..."
Looking for:
"... I am a dominant woman seeking a new submissive partner after the passing of my husband. I am a strong and independent woman who is seeking a loyal and devoted submissive to share my life with. I am looking for someone who is willing to put in the effort and dedication to serve me and my lifestyle. I am looking for someone who understands and respects the dynamics of the relationship and the power exchange between us. I want someone who is willing to challenge me intellectually, emotionally, and physically. I am a kind and compassionate person who is searching for someone to share my life with. I am looking for someone who can provide me with unconditional love and support, and who will never question my authority or my decisions. If you think you have what it takes to be my submissive partner, then I welcome you to contact me. I look forward to hearing from you. ..."