
Looking for:
"... I am very feminine and gracious. I believe feminine strength is powerful, yet different from masculine strength. Positivity is very important to me, so no-glass-half-empty men, please. Seeking a man whose primary focus is my pleasure and happiness. I’m happy to direct and guide to my satisfaction, and provide relatable consequences, but not into sadistic punishment. ..."

Looking for:
"... The underlying thing that keeps my engine running is the experience and analysis of new sensations and situations. As I have learned a little bit more about the lifestyle I am finding my happy place. While I don't think I'll ever be not "evolving" I know what I want and don't want. Keep it moving if you aren't really committed to learning. I did not come here by way of a certain book/movie. There may be certain roles we are all inclined to, but there is a tremendous learning curve between what you think this is, and what this actually is. I am more than an assemblage of body parts and a collection of kinks. If you are out to reduce women (or anyone) to just that, we are not simpatico. If you are out to simply get your jollies off without regard to your partner, we aren't gonna jive. If you don't think that trust is at the foundation of every play negotiation, scene, relationship, we have a fundamentally different world view. I take my role very seriously. Do not think that softness, or kindness, or interest in your life is weakness. I am not a woman trying to emulate the dynamics of a male Dom with their sub, I am my own unique self trying to remain authentic, and true to me first. Understand it is far more likely your bits will be under my command and control far before you get the whiff of mine. ..."