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"... I'm looking for a man that I can dress up in female clothes/lingerie and fuck them. In exchange for me fucking them and treating them like my little slave/pet they will buy me gifts, give me money/allowance, and hopefully do fun things such concerts, festivals, shows, travel, outdoor activities, camping, etc at their expense....you know treating me like a princess and investing in my health and beauty, so I can reward you with a nice fuck. Okay with couples, as I am bi-curious. Down to do more with a female if all parties were tested. Definitely okay with voyeurism. NO PIV NO PIA. Can have a discussion if a deep and meaningful connection was made between both parties ..."
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"... It's been eight years since I was last a part of the scene in Chicago. Reasons are simplified to a marriage that didn't work and a career which has kept me pretty busy. That said, now that life has somewhat settled, I find myself yearning to re-explore subspace with a Domme willing to retrain and help take those voyages with fresh eyes. In return, I pledge a partnership that is drama free, isn't all about "me me me" and, as much as I yearn for the release inherent with the joys of pain and pleasure, a promise never to top from the bottom. I think that's the correct term- I'm rusty. My only boundaries are breath and knife play. Everything else is only bordered by your imagination. As for who I am, the basics are investigative writer, lover of the arts and unapologetic nerd (author of angry dissertations on how Dr. Who has been wrecked by a clueless show-runner and why the ending of BSG remains a slap in the face). Speaking of, I am a pain-slut at least as defined by Urban Dictionary and Russian/Czech BDSM videos). As for the rest, no spoilers, feel free to find out for yourself. I am happy to entertain a dialogue with folks out of the area but not international. I don't plan on moving countries just yet. Only three quid pro quos: First, it may be a waste of perfectly good font, but no men. Second, no trans or cds. Before the angry Twitter mob descends, I am allied to everything you are/want to be. It just doesn't float my sexual boat. Lastly, I am on assignment in Indianapolis until April/May but Chicago is and remains home. But, if there is someone also wandering in the Indiana desert gasping for the broad-minded, then find me. ..."
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"... I caught you looking at me. I know why you are here. It's definitely note. I know why you are here. It's definitely not to talk about the weather. It's because you long to be on your knees and hands at my feet. You've finally admitted to yourself that your inner whore can no longer be contained. You want to dress and act like the slut you are if only in private. To the outside world you are secure and successful, but the real you, the inner you, is crying out to be used, humiliated, and degraded. You've wondered what wearing a leash and collar would feel like. You've wondered what it would be like to be bound and helpless awaiting the sweet agony of pleasures to come from your mistress, You long to experience things so taboo you don't dare discuss them with your friends. You've been desperately hoping to share these feelings with someone that you can trust and who will hold your hand and gently guide you down this dark path of dark perversion. Take the step. About me: I am an extreme person. ..."