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"... I don’t play at dominance — I embody it. Control isn’t something I ask for; it’s something I take, carefully and consensually. I’m drawn to surrender that’s intentional, earned, and real. Power exchange, for me, is psychological before it’s physical. Eye contact that holds. A voice that steadies. A presence that doesn’t waver. alexisgolden843@gmail. com I value trust, discipline, and clear boundaries. I push limits — but only the ones we’ve agreed to explore. Respect is mandatory. Obedience is earned. Chemistry is everything. Hey everyone! Just a quick note: I’ve been trying to verify my account so I can message people who have favorited me, but it’s been stuck on “processing” since yesterday. If you’ve tried to reach out and I haven’t replied, that’s why. Hopefully it gets sorted soon—thanks for your patience! and also dont forget my email up here... ..."

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"... It's been eight years since I was last a part of the scene in Chicago. Reasons are simplified to a marriage that didn't work and a career which has kept me pretty busy. That said, now that life has somewhat settled, I find myself yearning to re-explore subspace with a Domme willing to retrain and help take those voyages with fresh eyes. In return, I pledge a partnership that is drama free, isn't all about "me me me" and, as much as I yearn for the release inherent with the joys of pain and pleasure, a promise never to top from the bottom. I think that's the correct term- I'm rusty. My only boundaries are breath and knife play. Everything else is only bordered by your imagination. As for who I am, the basics are investigative writer, lover of the arts and unapologetic nerd (author of angry dissertations on how Dr. Who has been wrecked by a clueless show-runner and why the ending of BSG remains a slap in the face). Speaking of, I am a pain-slut at least as defined by Urban Dictionary and Russian/Czech BDSM videos). As for the rest, no spoilers, feel free to find out for yourself. I am happy to entertain a dialogue with folks out of the area but not international. I don't plan on moving countries just yet. Only three quid pro quos: First, it may be a waste of perfectly good font, but no men. Second, no trans or cds. Before the angry Twitter mob descends, I am allied to everything you are/want to be. It just doesn't float my sexual boat. Lastly, I am on assignment in Indianapolis until April/May but Chicago is and remains home. But, if there is someone also wandering in the Indiana desert gasping for the broad-minded, then find me. ..."