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"... I consider my self as a strict but also a loving mistress, To me, A male/sub as the case may be has to be 'malleable' You have to be capable of adjusting your self to satisfy your mistress wants , It could mean a different things to peoples depending on the situation, As a good sub, you have to be ready to relinquish your WILL and CONTROL into the hands of your mistress,I find it quite interesting fromo experience that men that are usually in control in their daily lives usually have this crave to be dominated ..."

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"... Why do Dominants (alpha) like this lifestyle? Having control over another person's life or body can feel very empowering. The knowledge that you now have power over someone else, and they will not only willingly but gladly submit to your will, can be very exciting. People choose a BDSM lifestyle for different reasons. Someone might be attracted to it because of a book, a magazine, a movie, heard about it from a friend etc. Most people like BDSM to experiment with control. A Mistress as a Master enjoy being in charge, having the control and power over others.. ..."