
Looking for:
"... It was a little later in life for me when I noticed that I actually had a sadistic nature hidden so far deep inside I was unaware for most of my life. I was in my early thirties and at a party one night when I noticed the TV on in the corner with no sound, I was a bit tipsy but do fondly remember trying to act so very nonchalantly and looking all around as if I was not noticing the violent brutal torture scenes that were playing on the late night movie giving me chills and a mild hands free orgasm. since the I have collected historical violent erotic art and torture devices and of course violent movies of many types, I am not a violent person and could never harm a human or animal, but I do consider myself into kinky sex and I can orgasm at just the thought or sight of someone tortured,whipped, public punishment especially if the torturer is a handsome guy. ..."

Looking for:
"... I'm a beautiful, intelligent and happy African American woman who naturally takes the lead, so why deny myself that or anything else? I'm looking for a long-term FLR, a healthy dose of kink with a man that is willing to be trained to meet my expectations because he understands that he earns his own pleasure by doing so. I am stern but compassionate, knowing that full submission happens slowly but I have NO interest in being topped from the bottom. I haven't experienced polyamory but may want to share you with another man. For me this is beyond denial, submission or the kink of it all but instead about trust, pleasure and both parties getting their needs met, understanding what those expectations are and communicating when they change. I'm looking for a public-Alpha male who is successful in his field but is aware of his need to submit his control to me! I am bi-coastal so LA boys considered. ..."