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"... My life of BDSM began in New York. I was a mere 21 years old and still in college when a group of us would frequent the popular S/M clubs. I used to just go and watch –a complete voyeur! Later, I started going by Myself when the novelty wore off for My friends. I was intrigued and wanted to participate, but didn't know how to get involved. I decided to do a paper on S/M while in school, and made an appointment to visit one of the local BDSM clubs in the city. I interviewed the ladies, and even did a few "cameos" during My jaunt. I was impressed by the intellect and creativity of the Mistresses. For them, having men grovel at their feet all day was a way of life. I asked if I could come back for a second interview. This time I fully participated –commanding slaves to do things for me, to satisfy whatever desire I had at the moment, and then punishing them if they didn't meet My standards. I was a complete natural! I loved having that power and I felt that I deserved it. It was as if I had found My place, My home. I took a good long look at My life up to that point and realized that I had been dominating men on some level all along; only I didn't know there was a name for it. ..."

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"... Keywords: Elegance / Femininity / Power / Humour / Mindfulness / Sensuality / Dominance Pleasure My greatest pleasures are sensual connection and emotional growth. Such immense delight in the little details. I'm a heady, unapologetic romantic. Watching things grow. Creating beauty. Fine tea. Indulgence, Hedonism. Considering the wild ride of evolution or brilliant human design. Being fully present. Laughing. Changing the world for the better, even in a tiny way. Accepting the gift of adoration. Travel adventures. Power exchange. I am a Dominant Lady and it pleases me to be treated accordingly. Mind I'm a lifelong learner, dazzled by the sciences. I tend a jungle of house plants, listen to too many podcasts, and love documentaries and “art flicks”. I read at least a book a week. I have a fondness for clever language. If you want to curry favour with me, be my dinner companion; across the table we can build our shared fantasy. I'm equally at home in a Michelin-starred restaurant or strolling through a park with delicious street food. Together we can explore the hidden, eccentric magic of any city, or I'll play the role of adventurous tour guide in San Francisco or Paris. We'll take in the secret sites and the performing arts- opera, modern dance, drag shows. You will be financing my passions and not a handbag collection. Aesthetic I dress to embody the glamour I feel, reveling in my own femininity. I like to feel a bit outside time, as if I am a part of a beautiful film. Elegance is deeply fetishistic for me. I wear vintage or vintage-inspired clothing and undergarments nearly every day, but I also appreciate well-made modern pieces with classic lines. I'm drawn to sensual silks and satins, rich chiffon petticoats and sophisticated pencil skirts. A Sybarite. Ethics I hold myself to a high standard of ethics. In communication I am honest, authentic, and discreet. Our relationship will be protected with the strictest confidentiality. I pride myself on being compassionate and present, choosing company that I can genuinely enjoy. True freedom requires trust and I seek to build that trust between us. ..."