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"... My life of BDSM began in New York. I was a mere 21 years old and still in college when a group of us would frequent the popular S/M clubs. I used to just go and watch –a complete voyeur! Later, I started going by Myself when the novelty wore off for My friends. I was intrigued and wanted to participate, but didn't know how to get involved. I decided to do a paper on S/M while in school, and made an appointment to visit one of the local BDSM clubs in the city. I interviewed the ladies, and even did a few "cameos" during My jaunt. I was impressed by the intellect and creativity of the Mistresses. For them, having men grovel at their feet all day was a way of life. I asked if I could come back for a second interview. This time I fully participated –commanding slaves to do things for me, to satisfy whatever desire I had at the moment, and then punishing them if they didn't meet My standards. I was a complete natural! I loved having that power and I felt that I deserved it. It was as if I had found My place, My home. I took a good long look at My life up to that point and realized that I had been dominating men on some level all along; only I didn't know there was a name for it. ..."

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"... I am real. 100% female dominant. 100% female led relationships. I’ve been active in the lifestyle the better part of a decade and have collared a small few (currently a 42pansexual genderqueer man) I am active publicly and locally - meaning I go out to bdsm events and clubs and know people yet my coworkers have no idea. I am perfectly sweet and seemingly innocent with an extremely high sex drive. Sexual servitude is my number 1 kink always. I identify as queer and **do not discuss anything sexual online until we have met in person** I love to teach and instruct and explain because I like my submissives to grow as people and in their submission. For this reason I do not tolerate any type of sexist degradation play. This includes forced feminization and sissification. The political climate of the world is everything. My submissives will always be informed and strive for relevancy. Here’s what my typical week looks like (I’m using M/s typing because it’s relevant): My submissive drives us to our joint employer 6 days a week. We spend a lot of time outside with nature and go for a walk or the gym almost every day. At home my submissive does *all* of the chores except shopping and cooking because I’m way better at it. Dishes, mopping, ..."