
Looking for:
"... The underlying thing that keeps my engine running is the experience and analysis of new sensations and situations. As I have learned a little bit more about the lifestyle I am finding my happy place. While I don't think I'll ever be not "evolving" I know what I want and don't want. Keep it moving if you aren't really committed to learning. I did not come here by way of a certain book/movie. There may be certain roles we are all inclined to, but there is a tremendous learning curve between what you think this is, and what this actually is. I am more than an assemblage of body parts and a collection of kinks. If you are out to reduce women (or anyone) to just that, we are not simpatico. If you are out to simply get your jollies off without regard to your partner, we aren't gonna jive. If you don't think that trust is at the foundation of every play negotiation, scene, relationship, we have a fundamentally different world view. I take my role very seriously. Do not think that softness, or kindness, or interest in your life is weakness. I am not a woman trying to emulate the dynamics of a male Dom with their sub, I am my own unique self trying to remain authentic, and true to me first. Understand it is far more likely your bits will be under my command and control far before you get the whiff of mine. ..."

Looking for:
"... I’ve been in the lifestyle for about 3/4 years and have enjoyed every single moment of it. I haven’t pegged/dominated anyone in a while so I have been searching for discreet relationships to fulfill my growing role as a domme. My style depends on my partner so generally I would like to take time asking you questions on your experiences and see if we can connect. Very flexible with my role from a simple pegging relationship to a more hands on BDSM role. You decide ! ..."