
Looking for:
"... I'm a Trans woman living in the seacoast area of New Hampshire. I like playing video games, surfing the internet, and occasionally writing. I came to this site (and a few others) looking for a relationship that wasn't so...vanilla. I'm pretty easy going, so send me a message if you're interested :) ..."

Looking for:
"... I am Mistress Barbara. Control, elegance, and power define me. I move through my world with unwavering confidence and those who enter it do so with reverence and intent. My dominance is not for show; it is sensual, instinctive, and uncompromising when required. Submission is a gift. It must be earned, nurtured, and disciplined. I guide with care, whether your desire lies in structure, pain, pleasure, or surrender. Under my command, you will be seen, shaped, and owned. My interests span psychological domination, protocol training, teasing and denial, impact play, and deeper emotional surrender. I demand honesty, respect, and true willingness to serve. I have no patience for tourists or the uncertain. To serve me is to align with my will to embrace both pain and praise as my chosen tools. Your limits will be respected, but they will be tested. This is not a game. It is an exchange of power, trust, and transformation. If you’re ready to kneel, then you may speak. ..."

Looking for:
"... It's been eight years since I was last a part of the scene in Chicago. Reasons are simplified to a marriage that didn't work and a career which has kept me pretty busy. That said, now that life has somewhat settled, I find myself yearning to re-explore subspace with a Domme willing to retrain and help take those voyages with fresh eyes. In return, I pledge a partnership that is drama free, isn't all about "me me me" and, as much as I yearn for the release inherent with the joys of pain and pleasure, a promise never to top from the bottom. I think that's the correct term- I'm rusty. My only boundaries are breath and knife play. Everything else is only bordered by your imagination. As for who I am, the basics are investigative writer, lover of the arts and unapologetic nerd (author of angry dissertations on how Dr. Who has been wrecked by a clueless show-runner and why the ending of BSG remains a slap in the face). Speaking of, I am a pain-slut at least as defined by Urban Dictionary and Russian/Czech BDSM videos). As for the rest, no spoilers, feel free to find out for yourself. I am happy to entertain a dialogue with folks out of the area but not international. I don't plan on moving countries just yet. Only three quid pro quos: First, it may be a waste of perfectly good font, but no men. Second, no trans or cds. Before the angry Twitter mob descends, I am allied to everything you are/want to be. It just doesn't float my sexual boat. Lastly, I am on assignment in Indianapolis until April/May but Chicago is and remains home. But, if there is someone also wandering in the Indiana desert gasping for the broad-minded, then find me. ..."