Looking for:
"... BBW White Domme strict and firm but loving and compassionate as well. I started My journey as a sub so I fully understand your needs and desires. Through the years I have come to understand and blossom in My position as a Mistress. This is who I am what makes Me happy and how I choose to live My life. I respect a man that understands his need to let go and serve Me. I am especially interested in a bi sexual sub or one that thinks he can be "forced" to submit to another male, whether that other male is sub or Dom. I will take the time to know who you are better than you know yourself. Trust, honesty and respect will be established. A mind and body connection will be required as this relationship is not strictly about sex but U/us as two people. In public you can expect to enjoy a female/male relationship whereas at home you will know where your place is. ..."
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"... It's been eight years since I was last a part of the scene in Chicago. Reasons are simplified to a marriage that didn't work and a career which has kept me pretty busy. That said, now that life has somewhat settled, I find myself yearning to re-explore subspace with a Domme willing to retrain and help take those voyages with fresh eyes. In return, I pledge a partnership that is drama free, isn't all about "me me me" and, as much as I yearn for the release inherent with the joys of pain and pleasure, a promise never to top from the bottom. I think that's the correct term- I'm rusty. My only boundaries are breath and knife play. Everything else is only bordered by your imagination. As for who I am, the basics are investigative writer, lover of the arts and unapologetic nerd (author of angry dissertations on how Dr. Who has been wrecked by a clueless show-runner and why the ending of BSG remains a slap in the face). Speaking of, I am a pain-slut at least as defined by Urban Dictionary and Russian/Czech BDSM videos). As for the rest, no spoilers, feel free to find out for yourself. I am happy to entertain a dialogue with folks out of the area but not international. I don't plan on moving countries just yet. Only three quid pro quos: First, it may be a waste of perfectly good font, but no men. Second, no trans or cds. Before the angry Twitter mob descends, I am allied to everything you are/want to be. It just doesn't float my sexual boat. Lastly, I am on assignment in Indianapolis until April/May but Chicago is and remains home. But, if there is someone also wandering in the Indiana desert gasping for the broad-minded, then find me. ..."