- Female Domination lifestyle Personals.
EffinLady, East Rutherford New Jersey
Looking for:
"... I'm a beautiful, intelligent and happy African American woman who naturally takes the lead, so why deny myself that or anything else? I'm looking for a long-term FLR, a healthy dose of kink with a man that is willing to be trained to meet my expectations because he understands that he earns his own pleasure by doing so. I am stern but compassionate, knowing that full submission happens slowly but I have NO interest in being topped from the bottom. I haven't experienced polyamory but may want to share you with another man. For me this is beyond denial, submission or the kink of it all but instead about trust, pleasure and both parties getting their needs met, understanding what those expectations are and communicating when they change. I'm looking for a public-Alpha male who is successful in his field but is aware of his need to submit his control to me! I am bi-coastal so LA boys considered. ..."
MiztresManda, East Rutherford New Jersey
Looking for:
"... The underlying thing that keeps my engine running is the experience and analysis of new sensations and situations. As I have learned a little bit more about the lifestyle I am finding my happy place. While I don't think I'll ever be not "evolving" I know what I want and don't want. Keep it moving if you aren't really committed to learning. I did not come here by way of a certain book/movie. There may be certain roles we are all inclined to, but there is a tremendous learning curve between what you think this is, and what this actually is. I am more than an assemblage of body parts and a collection of kinks. If you are out to reduce women (or anyone) to just that, we are not simpatico. If you are out to simply get your jollies off without regard to your partner, we aren't gonna jive. If you don't think that trust is at the foundation of every play negotiation, scene, relationship, we have a fundamentally different world view. I take my role very seriously. Do not think that softness, or kindness, or interest in your life is weakness. I am not a woman trying to emulate the dynamics of a male Dom with their sub, I am my own unique self trying to remain authentic, and true to me first. Understand it is far more likely your bits will be under my command and control far before you get the whiff of mine. ..."