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"... I am a strict dominant lady also with a heart of gold and a gorgeous body well taken care of.i am drugs and disease free and I don't smoke either. I'm successful in my career and I want to be around successful people only. I love sports and swimming and I enjoy the beach too. I am creative and ready to explore and take on any adventure. If you want to know me all you need do is ask. ..."
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"... I am a professionally successful, Dominant woman. I am looking for a submissive male to call my own. I don’t expect to jump into collaring you on a second date - it may take years to get there. I want to explore every part of your mind and body. I want to extract your darkest fantasies to help me understand your mind. The male brain is, by far, the greatest erogenous zone in the body - and I love to get inside a man’s mind. Trust will be built through online chat, emails and voice calls before even a suggestion of meeting. By the time we meet in person I will know you inside and out - and how to have you trembling with desire. I expect my submissive to be confident, strong willed and intelligent. I also expect him to allow me to reduce him to a trembling mess. I always respect hard limits, but thoroughly enjoy pushing and testing soft limits. I am sensual yet sadistic. When my submissive is pleasing to me he will be rewarded, when he is not pleasing he will be punished. I am firm, yet fair. I believe it is a Dominants responsibility to always protect their sub and to push them to be a better version of themselves. I look forward to exploring your fantasies with you..... ..."
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"... It's been eight years since I was last a part of the scene in Chicago. Reasons are simplified to a marriage that didn't work and a career which has kept me pretty busy. That said, now that life has somewhat settled, I find myself yearning to re-explore subspace with a Domme willing to retrain and help take those voyages with fresh eyes. In return, I pledge a partnership that is drama free, isn't all about "me me me" and, as much as I yearn for the release inherent with the joys of pain and pleasure, a promise never to top from the bottom. I think that's the correct term- I'm rusty. My only boundaries are breath and knife play. Everything else is only bordered by your imagination. As for who I am, the basics are investigative writer, lover of the arts and unapologetic nerd (author of angry dissertations on how Dr. Who has been wrecked by a clueless show-runner and why the ending of BSG remains a slap in the face). Speaking of, I am a pain-slut at least as defined by Urban Dictionary and Russian/Czech BDSM videos). As for the rest, no spoilers, feel free to find out for yourself. I am happy to entertain a dialogue with folks out of the area but not international. I don't plan on moving countries just yet. Only three quid pro quos: First, it may be a waste of perfectly good font, but no men. Second, no trans or cds. Before the angry Twitter mob descends, I am allied to everything you are/want to be. It just doesn't float my sexual boat. Lastly, I am on assignment in Indianapolis until April/May but Chicago is and remains home. But, if there is someone also wandering in the Indiana desert gasping for the broad-minded, then find me. ..."